the calendar says september but my soul says Halloween

tag game

I was tagged by etoilesenpapier


1. last beverage? water
2. last phone call: my mom
3. last text message: also my mom about my ears

4. last song you listened to: Biting Bullets by JamisonParker
5. last time you cried: not sure, maybe at my grandma’s funeral?


6. dated someone twice: no and I think it’s stupid

7. been cheated on: not to my knowledge
8. kissed someone & regretted it: nope
9. lost someone special: yes
10. been depressed: no. i have had emotionally low periods though.
11. been drunk and threw up: yes. several times. looking to do it again in a few weeks.

: red, teal, purple


15. Made a new friend: yes
16. Fallen out of love: yes
17. Laughed until you cried: yes
18. Met someone who changed you: probably
19. Found out who your true friends are: no
20. Found out someone was talking about you: no
21. Kissed anyone on your FB friend’s list: no


22. How many people on your FB friends list do you know in real life: not sure. i’d have to check. a lot of them are quidditch people who i know but don’t.
24. Do you have any pets? yes. I have a fish named Ulysses and I still count the cats at my parents house. 
25. Do you want to change your name: i honestly don’t know what i’d change it to at this point.
26. What did you do for your last birthday: went to the mall with my friend
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: looking at houses to buy
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: this weekend, Homecoming, Halloween party, Halloween! (i can already feel the season’s magic beckoning my soul!)
30. Last time you saw your mother: Labor Day weekend
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life?: I kind of wish I weren’t single. I also wish I didn’t identify as asexual.
32. What are you listening to right now?: the hum of my fish tank
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom?: yes
34. What’s getting on your nerves right now: a project I’m dealing with at work
35. Most visited webpage: probably Tumblr
36. Blood type: AB (not sure if positive or negative)
37. Nickname: Meg, Meggie, MG, Megz, DeLance-Pants
38. Relationship Status: single
39. Zodiac sign: Aries (best sign out there!)
40. Pronouns: she
41. Elementary: I don’t know what this is asking. Did I complete it? Yes. Am I going to tell you which one? No.
42. High School: Same thing here. I completed it and it’s closing down after this school year. I’ll no longer have a high school alma mater or something.
43. College: Yes. BA in English Writing with a Minor in Speech Communications from Edinboro University.
44. Hair color: Red.
45. Long or short: Hair? Short on the sides, long on top.
46. Height: 5’9”
47. Do you have a crush on someone: probably. i always have a list of people in the back of my mind that i’m always interested in but it’s nothing active but if they asked me out, I’d do it in a heartbeat.
48. What do you like about yourself?: pretty much everything. also my confidence.
50. Tattoos: I want them. Might be getting one soon!
51. Righty or lefty: righty
52. First Surgery: How minor/major are we talking? Technically tubes in my ears but if that’s not major enough tympanectomy on my right ear.
53. First piercing: ears, also only piercing. 
54. First best friend: probably Ronnie. I gave him one of my stickers when I had to get stitches because he helped save me.
55. First sport you joined: Basketball (tried joining cheerleading before that and it never actually happened)
56. First vacation: Either Orlando or the beach.
58. First pair of trainers: like I know when I got my first pair of tennis shoes?


59. Eating: Oreos
60. Drinking: water
61. I’m about to: change back into my PJs and go to bed
62. Listening to?: the cricket outside
63. Waiting for: the weekend
64. Want kids?: yes and no. i don’t want to birth them but I want to raise them from like 18 months and on.

65. Get Married?: i want to. i really want to plan a wedding.
66. Career?: assistant production editor


67. Lips or eyes: On me or others? Eyes unless I’m wearing a rocking lipstick.
68. Hugs or kisses: hugs
69. Shorter or taller: This is tough. I like tall people but I hate when people are taller than me so both but also neither.
70. Older or Younger: older
71. Romantic or spontaneous: spontaneous 
72. Nice stomach or nice arms: arms
73. Sensitive or loud: loud
74. Hook-up or relationship: relationship

75. Trouble maker or hesitant: trouble maker


76. Kissed a stranger: a near stranger, yes
77. Drank hard liquor: yes
78. Lost glasses/contacts: no
79. Sex on first date: no
80. Broken someone’s heart: i really hope i have
81. Had your own heart broken: yes 
82. Been arrested: no
83. Turned someone down: yes, several times actually
84. Cried when someone died: yes. a lot. so much. 
85. Fallen for a friend: i prefer falling for friends actually


86. Yourself: all of the time (I believe in Crystal Light cause I believe in me)
87. Miracles: only Halloween miracles
88. Love at first sight: no
89. Heaven: no
90. Santa Claus: yes
91. Kiss on the first date: no
92. Angels: no

I’m tagging quidkidforlife, lostthehat, and awakethevoice

So happy.

So happy.

I put clothes on and I’m off to either the grocery store or WalMart.

lostthehat replied to your post:I really, really, REALLY want oreos or donuts but…

can we put a rain check on them? not now but one day. one day i shall bring you oreos and/or donuts

For you, Kaleigh, yes. I will raincheck oreos and donuts any day.

I really, really, REALLY want oreos or donuts but I’m already in my PJs and feeling sick. Someone bring me oreos and/or donuts please?


White, stomping with ~~~misandry, your litas and Tina Fey gifs while simultaneously ignoring women of color and their feelings but having plenty of time to talk about winged eyeliner and discussing which white basic actor is your new “bae”, feminists keep messaging me saying I’m sexist for the piggy part of my url and I laughed and scrolled but then scrolled back cause I remembered I had a lil somethin somethin that might be relevant.

The title of this blog refers to these tweets (not fatshaming a thin woman) that were the cause of me unfollowing her (how did you think I found all these in the first place, duh). If this isn’t acting like a misogynistic pig I don’t know what is. Let’s be real, azaleans (is that a type of enemy alien race?) do anything to excuse her behavior cause she’s a white woman doing black music with a body and mannerisms typically associated with black women. She’s pear shaped with a “fat” ass. Black girls with literally the same measurements are called ghetto and shamed for their curves. She raps like a non archival photo copied T.I., southern twang and all, but since she’s actually Australian and white her stans are okay with it cause once the mic drops she has an ~exotic accent~ and ~cute voice.~ Her use of misogynistic slurs to put down other women and build up herself are in your twitter bio cause it’s so swaggy hunty gurl spill that fancy tea!!! But when Beyonce, Lil Kim, Nicki Minaj, Trina, or any black female artist (who im not saying are without flaws) talks about “slaying hos” and how bitches should bow down, it’s suddenly a problem that requires full length articles in actual publications and countless tumblr posts. Like Miley Cyrus, she’s used black women as props and until recently had exclusively black dancers who twerked the fuck out on a hand stand, doin that thang while she stood there and occasionally gave a D- booty shake that the crowd still went off for more than the actual pros popping their pussies off the damn ceiling and filling me with the holy spirit. Do us all a favor and accept you’re excusing her being a careless racist because of her appearance. You can still wanna lick her pussy, bop to her white girl anthems or have your body tied to a carriage and dragged by Brad Pitt like Eric Bana in Troy just to reach that ass. But be real and quit denying that what she’s said is okay by anything but Donald Sterling’s standards. As Paul Mooney once said, “Everybody wants to be a nigga, but nobody wants to be a nigga." She’s a low quality xerox of black female rappers and white America couldn’t wait so they didn’t have to bop to actual hip hop anymore from the people who created it.

And for the 956 messages calling me a hater, a hater is someone who reads with no resume and critiques with no credentials. I have more degrees than a thermometer. I don’t know what bullet-less gun y’all were holding when you thought you had a shot at rationalizing these “jokes” when they’re not hot, not even lukewarm. Now run and tell that.

and have a lovely evening! xxx


*feel free to reblog this without the text, i don’t want my opinion to dominate the conversation regardless of whether I feel I’m right (I am 💅) or not. 


1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.
19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people."



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